Forgiveness

We have all been hurt in the past by the sinful behaviors of others. These actions not only damage relationships but also if left unresolved, will lead to greater conflict—especially in the church. What does Scripture call us to do when we have either been the recipient of this hurt or we have been the one that caused the hurt?

There are many passages in the Bible dealing with forgiveness. Ephesians 4:32 reads, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” In Matt 6:12, 14–15, we find, “Forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who sin against us. . . . For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” In Luke 23:34, Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive them.” Scripture reminds us that those who are forgiven by Christ will be known as people who forgive others, and this is only through Christ’s work on the cross—not by our works.

By forgiving others, you demonstrate God’s grace when He freely and willingly forgave a “wretch like me.” When we forgive, we are not approving of the sin, just like God doesn’t approve of our sin when we sin against Him. When we don’t forgive, it impacts not only our relationship with others, but more importantly our relationship with God. If you are struggling to forgive, turn your eyes upon Jesus who has forgiven (and continues) to forgive you. Let God be the just Judge. In doing so, He will give us the power to forgive others through the promise of the Gospel. The result will be mended relationships and a peace in your soul that will renew and refresh your Christian walk.

Joel Jundt, Elder